Friday, my pantry:
It had looked like this for months - I didn't even know what was in there any more!! I just kept buying more stuff at the supermarket every week, and shoving it in on top of what was already there, never thinking that maybe if I sorted out what was already in there things might be easier!
Thirty minutes later:
Not a lot of effort, as it turned out, and look how good it looks now! Went grocery shopping afterwards and only bought what I needed, saving about £15 in the process, whoo hoo!
And it turned out I had 3 jars of peanut butter.
Saturday, I had a haircut:
Before...obviously! Hadn't even brushed it!
Afterwards! Blonder! Planning to go platinum for the big 30...but we'll see ;)
And now, a trip into the archives. Who could forget this before photo:
This was me, yesterday:
Still here after five years at goal, going strong, finding new goals to kick. Training for a marathon, fitter than I have ever been. Life is far from perfect, I assure you, but I just have happier and healthier ways of dealing with things. I can't remember the last time I made a cheesecake :)
Do you know what all these before and afters have in common?
Between each before photo and every after photo, there was a choice.
A choice to leave the pantry in its messy, disorganised state so I would continue wasting money by buying stuff I didn't need and wasting food by not storing it properly, or spend half an hour tidying it up to make life a bit easier and to feel good about having one corner of this tiny flat that isn't a pig sty :)
A choice to let my tiger stripe get bigger, my split ends split even more, and continue feeling a bit manky in general, or to mosey along to the hairdressers, freshen everything up and feel fabulous.
And as for the last two photos, well, I still had a choice. Did I want to keep living a life I was so tired of, where I was bored, bitter, fed up and desperate to be healthy and attractive? Or did I want to do something about it? Did I want to end up where I was headed, or did I want to find out who I really was and what I wanted to do with my life?
Eventually it got to the point where there was only one answer! It took a bit longer than cleaning out the pantry or getting a full head of blonde foils, but I got there, and have stayed there.
It can be as simple as cleaning out a cupboard, getting a haircut, walking to work instead of catching the bus......little choices, a little bit of effort, done continuously....and before you know it, you'll be getting up at 6am to train for a marathon :P (I never saw that coming!)
Every philosopher, poet and songwriter in the world has said it, and it's true. Lots of little things turn into something enormous in the end. The power to go from before to after is yours! :)



He's not the greatest poet or philospher but he's on my mind for obvious reasons...in the words of the Grohl "it's times like these we learn to live again...."
ReplyDeleteThis popped up in my reader when I got home from sunday lunch at the in laws and the first thing I went and did was sort out my store cupboards (I just found baking powder that went out of date May '10 - shhhh! don't tell!) it all looks lovely in there now and ready for my shopping to be packed away tomorrow!
ReplyDeleteDebbie, there was stuff in my cupboard from 2009. And a lot of jams growing fur. I was very embarrassed!! :)
ReplyDeleteFab post! amazing to see your before and after pics. I have to keep on top of my cupboards all the time or they'd be a nightmare!
ReplyDeletestunning photo of you in second pic!
ReplyDelete*wolf whistle at hair*
ReplyDelete*then singing YOU....LIGHT UP MYY LIIFE, YOU GIVE ME HOOOOPE, TO CARRY OOONNN*
I love your posts and await them eagerly.
I tidied out my pantry yesterday....so THAT was where all the little mothy things were coming from (true story)
big big hugs missy.
Cilla xx
You look gorgeous Phil!! Absolutely beautiful person inside and out. Your achievements are so inspiring. xx
ReplyDeletePhil, you look amazing! I love your new haircut. I have to agree that the choices we make are so important, and it's ultimately up to us to go the extra mile, and make the differences in our lives. Kudos to you!!
ReplyDeletegod i love ya phil! you go, girl xo
ReplyDeleteLooking amazing Ms Phil. Loved the post.
ReplyDeleteYou look just beautiful, as always xxx
ReplyDeleteClaire xx
Well done you! I can't believe that photo was only 5 years ago - you look a totally different person.
ReplyDeleteAnd I am such a cupboard organiser too - I get so much satisfaction from putting everything into a logical order, and although I am not quite at the stage of all labels facing the same way, it is a huge sense of relief.
Maybe it is time to get some more 'stuff' in order in my life...
All these years later and you still manage to inspire.
ReplyDeleteYou look great.